Most therapy will only validate you. Mine will transform you.
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Corrin Voeller, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Couples Therapist, and Discernment Counselor
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Minnesota #3956
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Wisconsin #2345 - 124
NPI: #1649761214
Some days are more tolerable than others. Sometimes there are even good moments. Which honestly? Just makes this more confusing.
When you do have a good moment, it's hard to even enjoy it because your head starts spinning. "Maybe I'm overreacting... Maybe this is what they mean by marriage is hard. Maybe I'm the problem."
Then the next bad moment happens and you're right back in it. Feeling stuck and miserable. Wondering how long you can go on. Each new fight, followed by silence and feeling like you can cut the tension with a knife, and you remember exactly why you've been feeling like this.
How can you be in the same room with someone who is supposed to know you better than anyone, yet you feel alone?
You've Googled "signs you should leave your marriage" at 1am. You've also Googled "how to save your marriage." Sometimes both in the same night.
You love them, you have a life together, starting "over" sounds awful, but staying is also slowly making you feel like you're disappearing.
So you do nothing. Because doing nothing feels like the safer choice. But you're also afraid you're going to wake up in 10 years full of regrets. You wonder how long you can keep carrying this before it breaks you forever.
My name is Corrin.
I have over 10 years of experience working as a marriage therapist. I have specialized in couples counseling, with an emphasis on Relational Life Therapy, which is a style of counseling that offers big transformation and solution-focused results.
For the last 10 plus years, I have also developed an expertise in Discernment Counseling. Discernment Counseling is a short-term form of counseling a couple on the brink of divorce/break-up and helping them decide what they are going to do. This work is my passion and I have helped over 1,000 couples in discernment counseling on how to break out of their stuckness and get moving again.
My experience is also working with individuals, with an emphasis on the relationships in their lives. I've worked with countless women who have been considering divorce or are going through the process and want therapy that gives direct feedback and helps them feel empowered. I have also developed a passion for working with men individually and helping them learn how to be in relationships in a better way, often with a focus on learning emotional intelligence and communication skills that help them get the results they want.
Finally, my other area of expertise that has developed over the years is in working with mixed ADHD couples (where one person has ADHD and the other doesn't.) These couples require a slightly different approach than neurotypical relationships and helping them understand the unique ways ADHD shows up in their relationship, and the way they can navigate it so they can have a fantastic relationship has been a joy.
If any of my experience resonates with you, schedule your free consult call today.
Credentials
Bachelor's of Science Degree, Psychology and Communication Disorders, Minnesota State University, Mankato
Master's of Arts, Marriage and Family Therapy, St. Mary's University
Discernment Counseling Certification
Relational Life Therapy, Level 2
Brainspotting, Level 2
Brainspotting is a powerful, focused treatment method that works by identifying, processing and releasing core neurophysiological sources of emotional/body pain, trauma, dissociation and a variety of other challenging symptoms
Certified in De-escalation from The Barbara Schneider Foundation Mental Health Crisis De-escalation